When You Hear Trash Talk, Do Something.
By Barbara Burke, October 24th, 2011Dissing Customers is Never OK
There is a new sign posted in major airports reminding travelers that if they see something out of the ordinary, they should bring it to the attention of airport security.
I’d like to suggest that supervisors post a variation of that sign in their office that reads: “If you hear something, do something.”
Take for example an agent who, after hanging up from a particularly difficult call in which the customer was irate or disagreeable, spins her chair around and launches into a tirade, using words like “moron, idiot, stupid, a-hole” to describe th
e customer. While blowing off steam after a call might make her feel better, the toxicity released pollutes the environment, forcing the agents sitting within earshot to inhale the poisonous fumes.
Let’s say that you are a supervisor who witnesses the agent’s emotional outburst. The employees seated in the area look to you for a response. You have two choices — both of which send an equally potent message.
- Ignore the behavior.
The unintended consequence of not doing anything about dissing a customer is that you have essentially lowered the standard of what is considered to be acceptable behavior. By taking no action you have proclaimed: “Badmouthing customers is just fine with me. Have at it.” - Do something.
Your employees look at what you do when you see an agent who is obviously out of line as a moment of truth; a litmus test that shows them whether you really do walk the talk. It’s crucially important for you to take the appropriate action.
- Meet privately with the agent to let her know what you observed. Make it clear that making derogatory remarks about customers is unacceptable. Discuss the negative impact such language has on her co-workers.
- Counsel the agent on healthy alternatives for managing job-related stress such as: applying the 4-step SODA (Stop.Observe.Decide.Act) process for remaining calm under fire, unplugging for a few minutes in your call center’s quiet room, or going outdoors for a walk.
- If you have a written policy against this type of behavior, take the prescribed corrective action for a first offense. (If you don’t have a policy against negative speech or it’s not included in your Code of Conduct, talk with HR.)
If you’ve noticed that badmouthing customers and harmful gossip is on the rise in your call center, you are not alone. My recent reader survey revealed that employee negativity (what I call “toxic talk”) is at an all time high.
I know how difficult it can be to put the breaks on workplace toxicity once it takes hold. That’s why I developed a Toxic Talk in the Workplace webinar on the topic to share a step-by-step process that I’ve used successfully with my clients. As these webinars sell out quickly, you’ll want to register early.
Make it a great week. Be the change.
Barbara Burke
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(Look for the next Monday Aha! on 10/31/11.)





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